Last week, we spoke about self-love as a superpower for young entrepreneurs.
This week, we talk about something just as important:
Knowing what — and who — to avoid.
Love without wisdom can cost you time, friendships, money, and confidence.
Entrepreneurship is exciting, but it also requires discernment.
- Red Flag #1: People Who Love the Idea but Hate the Work
Be careful of people who:
- get excited at the beginning
- talk big
- disappear when it’s time to act
Entrepreneurship is not about hype — it’s about consistency.
If someone only shows up when things look exciting, they are not a teammate.
They are a spectator.
- Red Flag #2: Friends Who Don’t Respect Boundaries
In high school, business often mixes with friendship.
Watch out for:
- missed deadlines with excuses
- disrespect for agreed roles
- jokes about your seriousness
Real friends may tease you — but they respect your effort.
If someone keeps crossing boundaries, it’s okay to step back.
- Red Flag #3: “Quick Money” Opportunities
If someone promises:
- fast money
- no effort
- no learning
- no accountability
Pause.
Most real success is:
- slow
- uncomfortable
- earned
Shortcuts often lead to long regrets.
- Red Flag #4: Ideas That Ignore Real Problems
An idea that sounds cool but:
- solves no real problem
- helps no one
- adds no value
- will struggle.
Love your idea — but don’t fall in love blindly.
Let reality guide you.
- Red Flag #5: Ignoring Your Own Wellbeing
Burnout is a red flag too.
If you’re:
- exhausted
- stressed
- failing school
- losing yourself
Pause. Reflect. Adjust.
A healthy entrepreneur builds for the long term.
This Week’s Challenge
Write down:
- One red flag you’ve noticed before
- One boundary you need to strengthen
- One habit you need to change
Awareness is protection.
Next Week’s Column Teaser
“What Real Support Looks Like (And How to Ask for It Without Fear).”
Love grows when support is healthy.

StartupGuy (Sandile Shabangu) helps high school learners turn ideas into real projects and build the skills to lead. He’s the founder of StartupMzansi, where young innovators get tools, tips, and inspiration to level up. Get resources to kickstart your journey: startupmzansi.app Learn more about StartupGuy: startupguy.co.za

